Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Absence of Judgment

GayPatriot has an excellent post up, comparing and contrasting the circumstances surrounding the Larry Craig, Eliot Spitzer and yes, even the Bill Clinton sex scandals, and I agree with his conclusion:

What links these three scandals is not just the sex, it’s also the circumstance. Each man had had experience knowing that such sexual antics could lead to public exposure, litigation and even prosecution. And yet, he acted as he did.


When you think about it, the lack of judgment displayed by these three men is stunning. As public officials, the idea that they could engage in this behavior and never have it become public knowledge beggars belief.

So why did they do it? Was it compulsive, something over which they had no control? Were they being deliberately delusional or just narcissistic (I can do what I want and get away with it because it's all about me, me, ME)? Or did they secretly, deep down inside, want to get caught?

Hmmm. Sounds like a job for Dr. Sanity or Dr. Helen.

9 Comments:

Blogger QueensGuy said...

Forget the pop psychologists, if you really want to understand how this happens, start with former NY Court of Appeals Chief Justice Sol Wachtler's prison memoir After the Madness (ISBN 0-7592-4519-3).

9:15 AM, March 12, 2008  
Blogger QueensGuy said...

And this judge too.

9:22 AM, March 12, 2008  
Blogger New England Guy said...

The downside of obtaining success and power is the progression to a belief that success and power are your natural attributes and since what you did got you where you are, whatever you do must be awesomely wonderful, so therefore you are completely free to do whatever you want and feels good.

Top that, Dr. Phil.

9:31 AM, March 12, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So there is something to be said for periodic failures on the way up the ladder?

9:33 AM, March 12, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

And all he really needed to do were a few more chores!

11:14 AM, March 12, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is there really a straight man alive who could resist trying a $5000 hooker if he thought he could get away with it?

11:50 AM, March 12, 2008  
Blogger QueensGuy said...

So your hypothetical is your $5000 and my trying? I'll get back to you after I see how this vacuuming thing works out....

12:43 PM, March 12, 2008  
Blogger VermontGuy said...

I can't imagine how many commas I'd have to have in my checking account before I'd even think about spending $5K for sex. Of course, if you factor in a 30-year marriage, $5K is pretty cheap.

QG: Someone needs to start a site called The Vacuuming Hooker.

3:26 PM, March 12, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

$5000!! You'd need a heckuva set and a few viagras to get rid of that distraction

3:41 PM, March 12, 2008  

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